12/7/2023 0 Comments Bdsm tumblr videoI think that sort of game (for some) creates some seriously unclear expectations and is mentally unfair. I’m referring (in my reblog) mostly to anon’s question with my answer because it reads as though she isn’t enjoying being “forced” to disobey. *Of course, if both Dom and sub are in on the game and both enjoy it, that’s different. And why would anyone want there submissive to experience that sort of mindfuck? (Unless the Dom in question is a sadist and then all bets are off, lol.) Think of how this sort of obedience paradox sets us up for failure no matter what and it becomes clear: we’re damned if we do, damned if we don’t. 135,026 tumblr amateur anal homemade bdsm slave tied FREE videos found on XVIDEOS for this search. It’s difficult to unthread the overwhelming desire to obey from the fabric of who we are and setting us up for it (when it’s clear it’s detrimental to the submissive) is cruel*. For many subs, even if it’s during play and beyond our control, if we “disobey” - we feel it within our being and struggle very much with it. ![]() This is why having clear communication, explicit expectations, and also why knowing your submissive is so important for a Dominant. I think it’s a problem when people extend this to other things and confuse true behavior-modification punishment with this type of play. It’s about outsmarting you, overpowering you in different ways, and a little humiliation. 191:13 Japanese video 370 Secret Marionette Island 11. Most Popular Videos Longest Videos Newest Videos Categories. :) I will then make it impossible for you to obey.whatever I know works for you… wand between your legs… wand between your legs and hand around your throat… or maybe my tongue between your legs and two fingers inside pressing against that certain spot… we both know you stand no chance, but, if I do my job right, you are truly scared… and you are truly sorry when you lose our little game… Asian bdsm xxx tube movies, amazing punishment porn - asian female bondage. Now, it’s not true punishment because I’m going to hurt you very, very badly anyway, and we both know it. I mean I might grab your throat, slap your face, look into your eyes and tell you that you need to obey… you need to not cum… and that if you do cum… if you disobey me… I will hurt you very, very badly. ![]() This is a good example… tell a girl not to cum, make it impossible for her to obey (and yes, to answer your question, I would exploit whatever weakness I could find lol), and then punish her for not obeying. Since April 2018 I have kept him permanently locked in a tight stainless steel cage, 24/7/365. I make a bit point out of punishment not being play… everyone asks about my favorite punishments, etc… but there is a place for play punishment. BDSM This is my dreams and my fantasies. Middle aged, married, and monogamous Goddess to my strong, masculine husband. You sent me this ask a few days ago too, and you raise a good point.
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